Illarion.org

when you log in, do you put your 'name' or your 'real name' and your 'charaters name' i put in all three and it says account has not been activited yet, and no i have my password very cleary and easy to remember and i'm tripled checked it, my account might have not been activited yet, the e-mail said

Your account request for 'Lord Shadow the Sorcerer' (password:
'******') was registered successfully.
Please wait patiently until you get an answer from us.

and i spell activated wrong

Strange, these Boradnames with numbers apear more often in the last days.

Well back to topic.
You have to wait until your account is approved.
You dont have one yet. You just requested an account, there is a big difference.

By the way, do you realy want to keep "Lord Shadow the Socerer" as a name? Make sure to read the Namerules. After that you might want to change your pick.