Oh, but you did. When you made this a public affair. Honestly, you've been making this a public affair from the beginning. You had no trouble starting rumors, months before you ever thought to ask about your children. I have held my tongue through much of your antics, but your latest stunt was the final straw.
If you are allowed to send Aswe to harass me for months, Oxi can allow me to respond to your latest waves of ridiculous accusations. The difference is, I am not some stranger who bluntly says I don't care about the children involved. I was not hired to threaten and slander. Like it or not, I am their father's partner, and therefore their guardian. I have been taking care of them for a while now, and I have a voice in this conversation. No one is paying or encouraging me to say anything... except you.
So please, continue this performance. Keep giving me lies to expose. I've already made it abundantly clear that he did not leave you for me, as you are so inclined to tell everyone. You abandoned your family months before the thought ever crossed our minds. And that no one has denied you visiting your children. You have never attempted to come see them, even by just dropping in. That would have been more welcome than this. The only time you have ever even hinted at wanting to see them to us, we made all of the plans, and you cancelled at the last minute.
Even now, you are not aware of their trip, because you never attempt to visit or even write. If you are not going to make any effort to connect with them, why should we make an effort to update you on them?
Just because you do not like the things I say, does not make them any less true.
If you really wanted to suddenly make this private, and speak with Oxi directly, you would have sent that note directly to him. You know he will not engage your dramatics publicly like this But please, continue playing the tragic victim. I have plenty of free time right now. The stage is yours, my dear.